Love in Balance

How do you find your way back to yourself and each other?

Many men and women feel as if they have trouble breathing. Do you ever have the feeling that you have lost something along the way? My book will help you reconnect with your lost femininity, your key to a greater balance. This will have a transformative effect on you, your relationship and your family.

Something just isn’t right. But what is it?

A lot of couples are stuck in ‘struggle mode’. They work (too) hard just to keep their heads above water in the rat race. They struggle to keep the balls in the air: their career, household and relationship. They feel as if they can’t breathe and can barely find time for themselves or their partner.

Everywhere around us we see the victims of this social model, both men and women. The high number of lifestyle diseases, burnouts, divorces and over-stimulated children shows us that our society is out of balance. We have lost something, but what is it?

Imagine…

…finding out that many needs and expectations which are costing you a great deal of time and energy, are in fact not your own; that they were handed down to you by previous generations or by the zeitgeist that has had a role in shaping you; that you realise that you can break free and become closer to yourself and closer to what you really need.

Can you imagine the level of freedom you would experience?

A guide to recovering your femininity

In this book I describe how I realised that due to a lack of role models and time, we have lost contact with our feminine awareness. As a direct consequence we have lost contact with ourselves, our partner and the world around us.

But now for the good news! There is a way out and this book can be your guide. I myself went from being a struggle mum to a more balanced woman, albeit by trial and error. I started working on my personal development and felt the massive impact this had on my relationship, my family and my surroundings.

Would you like to discover…

What the gender paradox is? The sugar pyramid? Life sciences?
Why we have stopped listening to our intuition and why we hide under ‘layers of varnish’?
What it is exactly that we have lost? How we can grow to become our real selves and achieve a more balanced life?
How the new alpha female lives her life and repairs the bond with her partner?
Where to find the personalised tools that you will need on your path to more balance?

This book offers you the answers and helps you on your way. It’s not published in English yet, but enter your email address below and I’ll send you an email once the English version is ready!

Readers say

I feel true joy when I meet a ‘feeling’ woman or man such as Karen, who has ideas about progress and empathy I like to sing about for my album ‘Sisters and empathy’. What if pogress would mean ‘making everybody happy’? This wonderful book is a manual, a recipe, a serious attempt to hand us the tools. Searching for harmony on a sagging rope. Being a pioneer is a lonely job, I know the feeling… – Axelle Red, singer

In my opinion this is the must-read book of our time. We all recognise the feeling of moving in the wrong direction, of too many people dropping out and no longer being able or willing to keep up. Thankfully, the times when we thought that this feeling was ‘just a state of mind’ are behind us. Often, however, the cause of this overall sense of tiredness is unclear. In this book, Karen describes how we can find explanations in our biological make-up, the point where we lost our balance and most importantly, how we can restore it. The book is very concrete in style (there is nothing esoteric about it!) and will benefit both men and women. It’s a must-read for anyone who wants to build on a future filled with opportunities for everybody! – Veerle Dobbelaere, actress and coach

Being an adult indigo child, Karen candidly describes her personal growth. Her book reads like a powerful cry aimed at encouraging the reader to grow on a personal level. Are you looking for explanations that surpass science? Do you want to learn about the things that previous generations overlooked and are you ready to incorporate more female energy? Then let this book be your guide. It’s a friendly request to get closer to your feelings with a greater awareness for all the people you love. – Elisabeth Timmermans, www.liefdeintijdenvantinder.be

This is a wonderful book… A love story about and for women! It gives you a sense of solidarity and makes you proud to be part of the tribe of women. I immediately wanted to share the experience with my male partner and friends. It’s also a practical book: read a few pages, gain new insights, take time to process them and then get to work. It offers plenty of resources and pointers to get started by yourself. One thing is clear: we as women have a mission… one that you can find in this book! – Lidy Veraghtert, transformation manager

Now that it’s becoming clear that better results are being achieved by companies with a healthy gender mix in the highest management levels, Karen encourages women to take their place in the business world with their own uniqueness as a starting point. This not only broadens the outlook of businesses, women are also able to connect better to the transition companies experience in the 21st century: from quantity to quality, from competition to partnership, from cost minimisation to value maximisation. Her personal quest to find balance between the various roles and expectations in her life form a fantastic starting point for her contemporaries to begin their search for balance between personality, relationship, family and career. – Jo De Wolf, CEO Montea

This highly topical book is gratifyingly recognisable: it feels great to see in writing what so many women experience subconsciously. In order to be heard, we have started to literally “man up” and stifle our female uniqueness. This book is a plea to highlight this uniqueness in an equal and contemporary fashion. It offers concrete tools to get back in touch with your female awareness and gives the energy to get things moving! – Birgit